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	<title>Comments on: Intimate Self-Portraits of Mother and Daughter</title>
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		<title>By: Amanda</title>
		<link>http://www.featureshoot.com/2012/06/intimate-self-portraits-of-mother-and-daughter/comment-page-1/#comment-30398</link>
		<dc:creator>Amanda</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Jun 2012 04:35:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have to agree, as a mother, that I don&#039;t find the complete absence of joy resonates at all with me. I find this set sad, and wish that this mother and daughter had some connection, so moment of happiness or connection. Sure, motherhood is challenging at times, but it is often exhilarating, amazing, enthralling, and to me, completely joyful. These pictures leave me feeling sad and hopeless for this pair. Yes, I have a supportive partner and I&#039;m sure that makes all the difference, however I think even my friends who are single mothers do find joy in day-to-day mothering. Not every moment, but it&#039;s there, in the cracks in the mundane.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have to agree, as a mother, that I don&#8217;t find the complete absence of joy resonates at all with me. I find this set sad, and wish that this mother and daughter had some connection, so moment of happiness or connection. Sure, motherhood is challenging at times, but it is often exhilarating, amazing, enthralling, and to me, completely joyful. These pictures leave me feeling sad and hopeless for this pair. Yes, I have a supportive partner and I&#8217;m sure that makes all the difference, however I think even my friends who are single mothers do find joy in day-to-day mothering. Not every moment, but it&#8217;s there, in the cracks in the mundane.</p>
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		<title>By: Lacey</title>
		<link>http://www.featureshoot.com/2012/06/intimate-self-portraits-of-mother-and-daughter/comment-page-1/#comment-30290</link>
		<dc:creator>Lacey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Jun 2012 18:53:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think in all art everyone has their own perspective. No two people feel or see the same thing. As a single mother I see in these images the exhaustion of motherhood but also the strength that a mother has. The strength to live each day for their child. To take care of them, enjoy them and the simplicity that they can also bring. Like the picture playing in the sand box, in the bathtub or just reading a book. I find myself playing or staring at my kids with the same look on my face. It is not depression. It is I am feeling exhausted on the outside but inside you are staring at them with the amazement that you created this and how much more wonderful could they be. I could stare at my children for hours. I sit there wondering what is going on in their heads, how did they learn that and how could I create something that takes so much energy out of me!

Maybe I am seeing this the wrong way the artist saw it. But the more I stare at them this is the way it makes me feel.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think in all art everyone has their own perspective. No two people feel or see the same thing. As a single mother I see in these images the exhaustion of motherhood but also the strength that a mother has. The strength to live each day for their child. To take care of them, enjoy them and the simplicity that they can also bring. Like the picture playing in the sand box, in the bathtub or just reading a book. I find myself playing or staring at my kids with the same look on my face. It is not depression. It is I am feeling exhausted on the outside but inside you are staring at them with the amazement that you created this and how much more wonderful could they be. I could stare at my children for hours. I sit there wondering what is going on in their heads, how did they learn that and how could I create something that takes so much energy out of me!</p>
<p>Maybe I am seeing this the wrong way the artist saw it. But the more I stare at them this is the way it makes me feel.</p>
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		<title>By: Gar Anthony Haywood</title>
		<link>http://www.featureshoot.com/2012/06/intimate-self-portraits-of-mother-and-daughter/comment-page-1/#comment-30250</link>
		<dc:creator>Gar Anthony Haywood</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 08 Jun 2012 19:58:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dana Fontaine:  No offense taken.  However, I don&#039;t think a male perspective is required to recognize the unrelenting negativity in these images.  And context is not going to change the fact that Ms. Bory looks like a woman CONSUMED by remorse in every single shot.

Everything you say is true about motherhood, and the special connection mothers often share with their daughters.  But in choosing to confine this series to ONLY those moments in a mother&#039;s life when she is CLEARLY finding little joy in being in the company of her little girl, the message sent is extremely limiting and, quite frankly, somewhat pathetic.

If, in fact, it was Ms. Bory&#039;s intent to deliver that very message---that single motherhood can occasionally be a total drag---then let&#039;s judge the work accordingly.  But holding this series up as some deeply moving statement about the beauty and complexities of the mother/daughter dynamic is giving it way more credit for empathy than it deserves.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dana Fontaine:  No offense taken.  However, I don&#8217;t think a male perspective is required to recognize the unrelenting negativity in these images.  And context is not going to change the fact that Ms. Bory looks like a woman CONSUMED by remorse in every single shot.</p>
<p>Everything you say is true about motherhood, and the special connection mothers often share with their daughters.  But in choosing to confine this series to ONLY those moments in a mother&#8217;s life when she is CLEARLY finding little joy in being in the company of her little girl, the message sent is extremely limiting and, quite frankly, somewhat pathetic.</p>
<p>If, in fact, it was Ms. Bory&#8217;s intent to deliver that very message&#8212;that single motherhood can occasionally be a total drag&#8212;then let&#8217;s judge the work accordingly.  But holding this series up as some deeply moving statement about the beauty and complexities of the mother/daughter dynamic is giving it way more credit for empathy than it deserves.</p>
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		<title>By: Dana Fontaine</title>
		<link>http://www.featureshoot.com/2012/06/intimate-self-portraits-of-mother-and-daughter/comment-page-1/#comment-30249</link>
		<dc:creator>Dana Fontaine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 08 Jun 2012 18:16:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Gar Anthony Haywood, I mean no offense by this, but perhaps your male perspective interprets these images differently than a woman who is a mother would.

Undeniably, without knowing the story behind a collection of worked curated by an artist, each person&#039;s perception of art is formed through the context of their own lives and for that reason the internal story assigned to the image will be as individual as those who witness it. 

Having said that, as a mother, I see the images not as being distant or remorseful, but more of the glimpses of the in-between moments of mothering. 

When you are the mother of a single child there are no siblings to engage the child and as a result the focus rests solely between the two of you. Your days become a dance as you try and balance your child&#039;s needs with their desires, the mundane chores of the day to day, the joyful moments, new experiences while holding on to who you are as a woman. It is you and them. It is beautiful, rewarding and difficult beyond words. 

Sometimes your child will be tender and engaging, sometimes your child will exercise their will and push the limits of expectations, sometimes your child will want to withdraw and be beyond the point of consolation, sometimes your heart will fill with pride at something your child has created or when they are learning a new skill. 

As each emotion and action transitions to another, we as mothers, take a moment to breathe. To inhale and bear witness to the moment. To hold onto it and give it its distinct signature so it does not blend with all the other moments in all the other days.

It is in these breaths that we see our children for who they are and realize what we, as women have grown into.  I feel that it is these quiet moments that Ms. Bory pays homage to in her poetic series, Corrélation.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Gar Anthony Haywood, I mean no offense by this, but perhaps your male perspective interprets these images differently than a woman who is a mother would.</p>
<p>Undeniably, without knowing the story behind a collection of worked curated by an artist, each person&#8217;s perception of art is formed through the context of their own lives and for that reason the internal story assigned to the image will be as individual as those who witness it. </p>
<p>Having said that, as a mother, I see the images not as being distant or remorseful, but more of the glimpses of the in-between moments of mothering. </p>
<p>When you are the mother of a single child there are no siblings to engage the child and as a result the focus rests solely between the two of you. Your days become a dance as you try and balance your child&#8217;s needs with their desires, the mundane chores of the day to day, the joyful moments, new experiences while holding on to who you are as a woman. It is you and them. It is beautiful, rewarding and difficult beyond words. </p>
<p>Sometimes your child will be tender and engaging, sometimes your child will exercise their will and push the limits of expectations, sometimes your child will want to withdraw and be beyond the point of consolation, sometimes your heart will fill with pride at something your child has created or when they are learning a new skill. </p>
<p>As each emotion and action transitions to another, we as mothers, take a moment to breathe. To inhale and bear witness to the moment. To hold onto it and give it its distinct signature so it does not blend with all the other moments in all the other days.</p>
<p>It is in these breaths that we see our children for who they are and realize what we, as women have grown into.  I feel that it is these quiet moments that Ms. Bory pays homage to in her poetic series, Corrélation.</p>
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		<title>By: Amanda</title>
		<link>http://www.featureshoot.com/2012/06/intimate-self-portraits-of-mother-and-daughter/comment-page-1/#comment-30246</link>
		<dc:creator>Amanda</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 08 Jun 2012 17:28:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I can see what the first commenter is saying. The mother looks exhausted and depressed - post-natal depression perhaps. In a couple of photos both mother and child are engaged in a shared activity (reading, the sandpit) but they never make eye contact. It&#039;s rather disturbing, but perhaps it is just this selection of photos. Nevertheless, there is a rather desperate feeling of a young mother going through the motions. It&#039;s challenging work that is incredibly far from most depictions of mother and child.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I can see what the first commenter is saying. The mother looks exhausted and depressed &#8211; post-natal depression perhaps. In a couple of photos both mother and child are engaged in a shared activity (reading, the sandpit) but they never make eye contact. It&#8217;s rather disturbing, but perhaps it is just this selection of photos. Nevertheless, there is a rather desperate feeling of a young mother going through the motions. It&#8217;s challenging work that is incredibly far from most depictions of mother and child.</p>
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		<title>By: Gar Anthony Haywood</title>
		<link>http://www.featureshoot.com/2012/06/intimate-self-portraits-of-mother-and-daughter/comment-page-1/#comment-30238</link>
		<dc:creator>Gar Anthony Haywood</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 08 Jun 2012 06:45:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Okay, call me an ass, but as beautiful as these photos are, if there&#039;s any joy to be found here --- any actual celebration of a mother&#039;s special bond with her female child --- I fail to see it.  Were I a young woman contemplating motherhood, after seeing these photographs, I think I&#039;d pass.

I get that this set was not intended to simulate a series of ads for Playskool toys, but Ms. Bory&#039;s obvious longing in every shot to be either a) dead; or b) somewhere, anywhere else other than &quot;here,&quot; playing (single?) mother to a beautiful little girl, sucks all the life out of every  scene.  The work may be technically brilliant, but conceptually, its as fresh and life-affirming as a dead puppy.

A fitting title for Ms. Bory&#039;s book would be &quot;Young Mother Desperately Overwhelmed by the Demands of Raising a Daughter With Whom She Has Little or No Obvious Affection.&quot;

Damn.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Okay, call me an ass, but as beautiful as these photos are, if there&#8217;s any joy to be found here &#8212; any actual celebration of a mother&#8217;s special bond with her female child &#8212; I fail to see it.  Were I a young woman contemplating motherhood, after seeing these photographs, I think I&#8217;d pass.</p>
<p>I get that this set was not intended to simulate a series of ads for Playskool toys, but Ms. Bory&#8217;s obvious longing in every shot to be either a) dead; or b) somewhere, anywhere else other than &#8220;here,&#8221; playing (single?) mother to a beautiful little girl, sucks all the life out of every  scene.  The work may be technically brilliant, but conceptually, its as fresh and life-affirming as a dead puppy.</p>
<p>A fitting title for Ms. Bory&#8217;s book would be &#8220;Young Mother Desperately Overwhelmed by the Demands of Raising a Daughter With Whom She Has Little or No Obvious Affection.&#8221;</p>
<p>Damn.</p>
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