Phillip Toledano was born in London to a French Moroccan mother, and an American father. He believes that photographs should be like unfinished sentences. There should always be space for questions. Phillip’s work is socio-political, and varies in medium, from photography, to installation. His work has appeared in Vanity Fair, The New York Times magazine, The New Yorker, Esquire, GQ, Wallpaper, The London Times, The Independent Magazine, Le Monde, and Interview magazine, amongst others. Of this project, Days With My Father, he writes, ‘My Mum died suddenly on September 4th, 2006. After she died, I realized how much she’d been shielding me from my father’s mental state. He didn’t have alzheimer’s, but he had no short-term memory, and was often lost. I took him to the funeral, but when we got home, he’d keep asking me every 15 minutes where my mother was. I had to explain over and over again, that she had died. This was shocking news to him. Why had no-one told him? Why hadn’t I taken him to the funeral? Why hadn’t he visited her in the hospital? He had no memory of these events. After a while, I realized I couldn’t keep telling him that his wife had died. He didn’t remember, and it was killing both of us, to constantly re-live her death. I decided to tell him she’d gone to Paris, to take care of her brother, who was sick. ‘Days with my father’ is a journal. A record of our relationship, and the time we spent over the last three years (2006-2009)’. This book, Days With My Father, will be available through Chronicle Books in May 2010.
Phillip Toledano, New York
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What an incredibly moving series and really well done. A little jealous I didn’t get to spend that time with my dad before he passed.
“Grandiose” is the least i could say…
I love this series. So sweet. I know of what he speaks….
incredibly intimate. I’m crying.